I too have a ton of anxiety issues. I was having bad pain in my stomach for quite a while. I, too, was worried about side effects of an AD, but I have been on one for a few weeks now and it really seems to help. It is mainly to help me sleep. I fall asleep fine, but then wake up around 3 and that's it! The brain starts going crazy!
As far as the finances, I would think he should pay half the mortgage. If he is on the loan, he is responsible for that. If he did that, along with child support, could you afford the rest of the home expenses?
In my sitch, I moved out for temporary separation (dumb move). My H makes much more than me, so he gives me money each month since I have S more.
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-