Read Sandi rules, youll see one that states clearly not to talk to her family about your R problems.... There are 2 things that might happen...one its your MIL being confronted by your W so the mom will try to calm her down by stopping the conversations with you.... Or the MIL will stop talking to her daughter and your W will add more thing to blame you for in her big trash can full of "reasons to blame my H"
I can say by experience LOL! That dealing with a person who has anger issues from the past can be one of the most frustrating things you will ever deal with, they get in a crazy mood because anger its like poison and they keep poisoning themselves...best thing to do and hard as fvck? Let them be, the more you try to reason with an angry person the more angry they get, once they are angry its like a drug, everything makes them high so they have to be more and more angry and they will use any excuse to be more angry...even the weather will make them more upset....let her find her way to deal with that anger...
Don't talk at all with an angry person, its like removing the ring of a granade and keeping the granade in your hands....it will explode no matter what, if you are not around at least that granade will not hurt you...
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
