Need help saving my family - part 8

[Scorp7]

Just thinking, is there ever a time when it's ok to try to say something about our M to my W?

I have not said anything to her for a few months about trying to work on things. We've had zero direct contact since last October, we've never spoken on the phone or seen each other since the day she left. How could she have any idea on who I am now without having any real contact at all?

The thing that is driving me crazy is that she has no idea who I really am or how far I've come since she's left. I know I'll be ok without her and I know I will have 50/50 with my kids. I just don't understand how anyone can be so stubborn and unwilling to even consider that we could at least be friends if nothing else.