This evening, my H's uncle who was in hospice care passed away. My H called me as soon as he found out. I told him I was here for him and how sorry I was for his loss. He said he's mostly worried about his mom because she's taking it really hard. Since he knew this was coming, he had been talking about getting a plane ticket back to his home state for the services. He's never asked me to go, or even suggested that he wanted me to go with him. I'm struggling with what to do. I'm not sure if I should offer to go with him or not. I don't want to put pressure on him, especially since he's already going through a tough emotional time, but if this had happened a year ago, I definitely would have gone with him to be there for him and for my MIL. We lived in his home state for 8 years, so MIL and I became pretty close.
It's also strange for me to not be with him now. I don't know if continuing to give him space is the right approach given the circumstances. Any suggestions?
