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I wasnt ready to talk to her and I screwed over one more time, I feel so bad that its incredible.


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Oh man. So sorry Ye. Hang in there.

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I'm so sorry, ye. I can't even imagine how much all of that must have stung.

She's lost right now. Let her be . . . for now.

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I fought 7 years so hard and now if she fills for divorce unless I am a victim of abusse or having a threat in my country of origin...they will annul my status and deport me frown


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So sorry man. Dont lose hope things can change in a second.


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Originally Posted By: ye21
I fought 7 years so hard and now if she fills for divorce unless I am a victim of abusse or having a threat in my country of origin...they will annul my status and deport me frown


What??! We specifically asked you several times, and you specifically said this could NOT happen??

I'm confused.

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Originally Posted By: ye21
Ok I will check with an attorney tomorrow to see the chances...

I know for sure they can't deported me because I already asked an inmigration lawyer before all this happened. wink



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Well , the stupid lawyer from CUNY inmigration who was conducting my case told me that, I called him today after the meeting with this woman (xwife for sure I hope so) and he told me he did a mistake filling the form and it has to be repeated so now the new form requires to interview my Ex again and she is not willing to cooperate.

So i was screwed by my freaking stupid lawyer!!!! I guess its true...things can really get worst


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I wish he would it call me this freaking morning before I meet with her frown
I tried to text her to get to an agreement and here we have the example of how she reacts:


Me: And i am not denying u the divorce I am just asking you for more time till i fix my situation
Your lawyers just care about your divorce not about me being screwed for the rest of my life.We can figure it out an agreement in my therapist if you want in 2 weeks.

Her: [censored] you. I'm not responsible for your life. Figure it out. You have other options.

Me: You going to that interview its my only option

Her: This right here is why we are getting a divorce. I'm not responsible for your immigration status. I told you my terms. If you want to make an appointment at a lawyers office that is it. No therapist no nothing. I'm not helping you

Me: I dont understand why you have to complicate my life more.
I am not a criminal, never cheated on you or abuse you.

Her: [censored] YOU [censored] YOU [censored] YOU. YOU COMPLICATE YOUR OWN LIFE. YOU JUST USE PEOPLE AND IM NOT GONNA BE USED BY YOU ANYMORE.
NOW GO [censored] YOURSELF AND HAVE YOUR LAWYER CONTACT ME. THATS IT. YOUR NUMVER IS NOW BLOCKED. DICKHEAD

Me: ok


Well as you can see, there is no way to talk to a person like that.


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Wow your W sure is a B*TCH.

Explain the situation to your L and have him contact your W. Right now she's a lost cause. Get your own status set straight first. Concentrate only on yourself. Don't let her talk to you or try to control the situation any longer.

Today is the day you get your b@ll$ back my friend.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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