Sandi ...you are right she isn't trying or putting in an effort to R.
My W went to the gym after work. I text her at the the time our daughter needed to be picked up from gymnastics and just asked her "Are you picking up xx" ...she responded "yes" and I then responded "thanks just wanted to be sure". When they got home daughter says mom said you are so annoying texting her. I then asked her if she said anything else. Daughter then tells me she told mom that "Dad loves you why don't you be nice" and that mom said "its too late ...i asked him to change a long time ago and it doesn't matter now."
I will still focus on GAL and my 180s with how i have behaved before. I know W notices but why she says it's too late, I don't know? I almost hope her having feeling for someone else is the reason because if that ends at least I feel I might have a chance to R. I wish I new for sure if she was in an A ...she says it just "conversation" with this guy but who talks on the phone till 2am with "a friend" or hangs out at the bar with him till 3am. I'm starting to ramble ...just hurts what my daughter told me.
Good night ...tomorrow is a new day.
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14
