My W will do nice things like buy me something specific at the grocery or plan meals for me when she's gone. It's hard to tell if those actions are genuine or just to string us along while they cake eat
I struggle with finding things short of filing as well. My W is already away from the house 3 days a week and only comes back so that she can see the kids. She's recently come back to the bed, but I don't know how much that is just not wanting to sleep on the couch anymore.
[/quote] If she's told you she's going to end the OM relationship, you should insist on writing the NC text with her, and being copied on it when she sends it.[/quote]
She just told me she was 'trying' not to contact him as much. A pretty vague statement and I guess I should have used that opportunity as my opening to state my boundary. I want to bring it up again, but fear that comes across as pressure.
