I know, Job. But the reason I wrote the note is because I took the kids to school this morning. I did it for D, not for H. I don't want to put her in the middle. And I am not making excuses, but I had to take S to soccer anyway and I wanted to see the dog. I think H knew that and he is just making me feel guilty and in his own way "prodding" me to see the dog and take it off his hands.
I don't really care if H gets mad, but I don't want him to take it out on the kids. H knows the kids are the only thing I really care about. He does need to learn a lesson, but I don't know what the judge will do? How do you force one to pay? How do you force one to do the right thing? H knows I have to pay this lawyer to make him do anything and I think he gets a charge from it.
It does serve him right and it is more of the house of cards crumbling into the sands. I just need to make sure my seatbelt is secured before hurricane H blows his stack.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"