Wants to leave again after a month!!!

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I'm sorry for your pain DFE. Please assured that this isnt your fault, you are not solely responsible for the surivial of your marriage and you cant take on the burden of that - your H is also reponsbile and if he's unwilling to work at things then thats HIS problem and not yours, you've clearly tried very hard.

You can only change YOURSELF and cant do anything about your H as that his responsibility, it might be an idea to get back into seeing an IC? I think it would help you a lot.

Have you read the book "codependancy no more - mellodie beattie" as that may help identify if your codependant and how to resolve that so that it doesnt impact on you and your future.