For those who have 'drawn a line in the sand'...

[Lifes Twists]

I think you should have gone on the trip without her. Imagine the email you could have then sent:

"Hi there, just got back from an amazing trip to Vail. The skiing was incredible.I met a lot of great people out there. I met this one woman in the hot tub the first evening. I skied with her several of the days. She skied incredibly well and showed me a few things. You would have enjoyed meeting her as well. Its to bad you missed out. I look forward to returning there again in the future for more great skiing."

Get a life. Don't let her decisions rule yours.