I just don't know if this is something that I should do or if I am better just listening and validating still. I know if we were in MC she would be prompted to consider my side, but I don't know if I am the one to prompt her.
Think about this....your ego its telling you to go back to the old ways...she is convinced of her idea otherways she wouldnt ask for D, keep your new yourself because if you keep validating she will reach a point where she has to look inside her and realize how she contributed to this situation....if you slip and go back to your old ways she can always say: you see? You are the same,,,your change wasnt real and thats the reason because I left you....
Dont give her reasons to be "right" give her reasons to look at why she is not right...
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
