So, tell me this... Do I go dim or do I be everything thing I was when he came home last time? Because those are two way different things.

I have been sweet, loving, happy, engaging, not pushy, not clingy, etc. This is what happened during the week he claims made him confused.

Now I have given up so much I don't even want to talk to him.

And let me say say this, If he says to me "this is an odd situation, it's not going to be easy" (or something like that) one more time. I'm ready to scream!!


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month