Originally Posted By: Starsky309
I know. We just all need to learn to value ourselves as the "cake" in our lives, and our spouses as the "frosting." I struggle with this one myself.

"You . . . complete me" may sound romantic when Tom Cruise says it in a movie, but it's NOT a healthy relationship attitude with which to go thru one's life!


Starsky


No i've learnt that the hard way - thats why i'm working so hard right now on finding out who I am and what makes ME happy, I dont want to live for a relationship I want to live for myself and have a relationship compliment that...

Difficult to maintain though i'd imagine which why I want to be really aware of it - any tips?


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