Along with this ^^^, my opinion is to work on yourself, it is an absolute must. Not trying to be a downer but this is your only move. You need to rediscover your self worth independent of your husband and the marriage. This way you will be good no matter the outcome. Unfortunately there are only two ways out of our situations and being strong and believing in your self will help in both outcomes.

I understand how hard it is to work on yourself. Once I got going it truly seemed to make a difference.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15