I guess then you get into filing strategy. D may be what W thinks she wants, until it happens. And W is in for a major dose of financial reality. And it would validate every bad thing she ever said about me - "See, I knew you never loved me."

Bet it scares the crap out of OM. The pressure would be on him to rescue her.

Of course, it really isn't a strategy, is it. I have to file with full intent of following through, with a small chance of upside. And would I want W back under duress of filing? Can't ever see restoring trust there.