Upwards - DB myself to happiness! #2

[jp787]

I can't stress enough how important it is to work on yourself now and leave your marriage on the back burner.

I couldn't do it and my wife came back after 9 months. I spent that entire time worrying about everything I couldn’t control and trying to save my marriage. Now we are back together and I still have to fix myself.

When your H left, it opened a huge opportunity for you. If you work on you and become who you want to be then if you get back together or not, you will be better, stronger and happier.
I get that it’s hard. As a good friend of mine would say “you have to take a leap of faith”.