Thanks T-boned, I really appreciate your words of support! Really helps me along. It has been sort of down days for me which i think comes from the interaction with H. I'm better when we're dark. I had to email him last night regarding the health insurance, he's on my insurance until we're divorced so he has been paying me his half every 2 weeks (it comes out of my paycheck). I gave him the amount due and said he could mail it if he wished, that I would leave it up to him. He responded "what's this insurance for?" he didn't even remember that the health insurance was taken out of my check even though he's been paying it every 2 weeks since we separated checking accounts months ago. I know he's following the MLC script but I still find it surprising that he can forget everything, just shows how wrapped up he is in his own life. Whatever, I reminded him what it was for and now hopefully he'll remember to pay me back for it. On a bright note, there's a support group i may go to tonight, Friday night I was invited out with girlfriends, and Saturday my dad is coming to town for visit for my brother's birthday - so I have stuff going on and feel like i'm GAL. Life must go on!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs