Hi Sister, I took my rings off Monday too. It was sad but kind of liberating. He has said he doesn't want to be my husband and he is sure not acting like one. So it feels a little self honoring. Mine is in the house too and that is hard. I make occasionally mistakes too. I have also happily made some good reactions and not realized til afterward that he was clearly testing and baiting me. That is helping me detach and act differently more in the moment. I am really just seeing him like he is my ex and I don't have to explain or defend myself. Or fix things for him for that matter. I don't really care what my H thinks pro or con about my interactions with the kids. I care what I think and what they think. Period. LL
LL 43 H 51 T 8 M 6 SS 17 15 S 6 D 3 H MLC started early 2013-think earlier actually, when BFF almost died mini-BD 8/13 separate rooms IDLYA, demands D ASAP 1/14 DR,DB,180s,LRT,GAL since mid Feb So confused
