Well, a couple of things have happened since last night that have made me change my mind. I'm going to be going over to my W's home town and staying there with the kids from Friday until Monday. I checked this morning and a room was available so I took it.

We had a pretty nasty snow storm hit here and we're apparently going to have snow right through the weekend. The roads are bad and aren't likely to be great when I would be driving the kids home on Friday so it's not a good idea to drive with the kids for 4 hours in that weather/road conditions.

Besides that, I won't go into all the details, I had a major feeling last night that bringing the kids home right now would be a bad thing to do. I don't know what may be coming in the near future with my W's decision on 50/50 but I feel like staying in her town with the kids this time is the best way to go.

In the next month the weather will be much better, I will be out of travel points so I won't be able to afford the hotels so at that point I can see bringing the kids home regularly. It's also possible we may have an agreement on 50/50 by then as well.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS