I understand our friendship needs to be re-kindled because we were best friends. But my issue remains, how does one get the attention of their W when you have NC and never see each other?

Yesterday I was watching a movie called "the shift" by Wayne Dier and look, something I got from this movie its that we can't control the outcome.
He said something amazing:
We had everything we need it in our first 9 months of life why will be different in the next 90 years? Don't interfere just let the universe take care...

I know thats not what you want to her but at the end my man, its true, no matter what we do, the universe its following its plan. For you and for her.

When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.