You are in a difficult spot. It's tough when they are in the home. I know some have been successful with in home separations while others are able to detach once the spouse leaves the home.
IMHO, the only road to take is the high road. Don't take the bait. Your h is trying to push your buttons. Relax. Take a deep breath before reacting. It's okay to smile and turn away or leave the room. I know it can be extremely difficult to respond with a zinger. However, that's what your h wants.
Keep the focus on you and your kids.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
