Opps...I think that I was not clear in my post. I am not looking to date and especially don't want to do so for the purpose of manipulating my H. I was simply stating what I think it would push my H off the fence one way or another. While I think it is the only thing that would cause him to make a decision now, I am not trying to force a decision. If my H wants to try again I want him to try for legitimate reasons that are lasting. Plus we both still have a lot of work to do.
