"You both seem to have reached a point where you're toxic to each other."
This is so true! Matter of fact it's the above realization that has forced me to vent my bottled-up feelings of despair and hopelessness in this forum. I am struggling with not being able to make a decision about what I should do to extricate myself from this state of misery. Do I leave my H or do I work on him: this is a million $ answer I am trying to find.
