If she says something about it dont apologize (you did nothing wrong) but say you understand- let her bring it up and let her talk and dont interrupt
Its all coming from a good place - She doesnt understand that now. Also, this is a time when if you sneeze it would be "wrong".
Right now its all about you and your sons
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13