3boyz- It stinks OW is in the picture still (literally), but it is a step in the right direction that he recognized the issue before he did it. I had a very similar problem with my H last week, but he does not "get it".
And I also have been trying to figure out the DB FB thing! Nobody knows my sitch, so I'm afraid someone from my life might stumble upon me on there if I don't have a separate account. I'm still trying to figure that one out...
As for dating, who knows when you're ready? If you go in to it not looking for R, and both parties know that you can have some fun. You may realize that it's NOT what you want right now, so then you stop doing it. I don't think I'd do it for manipulation purposes, though, because if it doesn't work you'll feel worse in the end.
Just a thought...hang in there.
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
