3B,

You made a comment about moving on and dating....as a tool of manipulation. Yes, it may provide it's intended result, but I highly recommend skipping that game. Good moving on is taking the boys to Disney, going out with girlfriends regularly, working out, cutting back the time H spends in the house (I know you like the family time, but the reality is come divorce time and you truly moving on...This family time will be severely curtailed).

Here are the truths about dating:

1- You really aren't emotionally ready for it.

2- The dating world stinks!

3- It is not fair at all to the other person...Yes I have been the victim of this a few times lately. Nothing like dating a lady for a month and then the separated husband deciding to show up again.

4- This is the worst one (happened to a friend)...You become emotional attached to a guy and then your H decides to come home. Now you are emotionally tied to two different men. This gets really ugly, really fast.

Don't do things expecting results...Do things because YOU want to.

As for facebook.....We all don't use the DB moniker. I for one don't have the time for two facebook pages and I have zero to hide. So people like Eric, mach, and others....You won't see us using the moniker. Just an FYI.....and Melissa I did send you a friend request LOL


"Be the changes you want to see in the world"