WH I am sure that the OW is 'baiting' you. Cupcakses my aunt Sally!! Hilarious when you think about it. (Painful too, I know)
But stop and think. When you were blissfully happy did you have the time or energy to even think about doing small mean things to hurt others? No, of course not. (Not suggesting you would do that sort of thing anyway btw!!) So the fact that you are getting these digs suggests to me that she isn't really a happy bunny!
Happy people get on with their lives. Miserable ones poke around in other people's.
