I have been thinking that if I told her about the baby gift in advance it would show that I am not trying to manipulate her.

I know I shouldn't be concerned so much with her feelings, but I don't want to take any more steps backwards.

I know not one thing will make or break us, but sometimes it still feels this way.

M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15