I have a very heightened awareness that my current state of mind and situation is dangerous and toxic for my health and happiness. However, I don't know if I can get my H to change and develop empathy. I have been researching to learn if lack-of-empathy is a genetically inherited personality trait or whether it's a learned attribute. If its genetically inherited, then I may be fighting a losing battle because it will be impossible to change my H. However, if it is a learned trait, then I'll have to work on making him unlearn this thoughtless mindset. What's your opinion?
