Need help saving my family - part 8

[Scorp7]

I'd tell her beforehand, I'd imagine if she finds out you haven't told her where they'll be staying there will be a bigger risk of her being upset & threatening your contact? Don't live your life in fear of what she might do, do what you feel is right and that is to tell her beforehand.

It must be so tough knowing she could just stop you seeing them - it's interesting hearing how different the laws are there & how the courts favour 50/50 care, very different here

I'm going to tell my W my plans beforehand, likely in a message tomorrow at some point. She may just refuse but the bottom line is there is nowhere to stay in her town. If I'd booked the room much earlier it wouldn't have been an issue but the cost is going to be an issue anyway.

I'm going to draft up another message and get some feedback before I send it off.