" I undersatand DB doesn't want the affair exposed thats there principle, I understand. "

I don't believe it means that. I think it means that you don't make the affair the sole focus of your situation.

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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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