Thanks KML. I am doing exactly what you suggest.

I think it's more the idea of my kid's calling her "mom". And the idea of her replacing me in my kids' mind. I don't think that would happen. D told me that "I am her real mom".

Just trying to breathe and not get on the crazy train.

WH


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"