Wants to leave again after a month!!!

[DFE]

Thank you. Support is huge right now. I've tried tons of IC but my last counselor basically said you are wasting your money here.

I wish I could get him to go to counseling as I know there are anger issues that need to be dealt with. I wish we had tried it when he first came back. Tonight was explosive. Not sure how to talk to him anymore after tonight. I want to keep him in the house as long as I can but don't know how. He's been wanting to take a trip and I thought suggesting he goes for a week or so just to cool down.

My brain says stop being a doormat. My heart says there is too much at stake.