Hi everyone, I am hoping someone here can help me as I don't know where to turn. My wife and I knew each other from High School and briefly dated but nothing serious (that was '97ish). Fast forward to 2008 and we start talking. At this point she has two daughters T was 7, K was 3. Shortly after we seriously start dating and I have met the girls and spent time with them and enjoy my time with them all, she gets pregnant with our twin boys. Thing were rough, money tight, and I sometimes felt like walls were closing in. Couple fights here, couple fights there but we love each other and our blended family, so we proceed to get married in 11. Now it was around August 13 and she unexpectedly throws me out because I yell and get upset at stupid things. I spend a couple weeks at my parents but I was a mess and spent most my time curled up in a ball. After about 3 weeks my wife asks me to come back home. I jump at the chance to show that I can fix myself and dive headfirst back into my marriage. My wife starts nursing school in Jan 14 and becomes reclusive and starts staying out late with her classmates. One night she didn't come home until 9am the next morning. I sit on the couch while she confesses that she doesn't have the energy to work on our marriage anymore. I get upset and make typical mistakes. She is in the process of moving out and I get to sit here every day while my wife is ripping my children from me. Last night Step Daughter K, tells me that she doesn't want to move and that wife is saying bad things about me to her friends.. I.E. I'm a huge A** and I make wife's life miserable. So I tell Step Daughter that we just need to show mom love and support. I asked wife today to please not speak bad of me in front of kids. Wife blows up saying she would never. I tell her what Step daughter said and now she is calling her daughter a liar and storms off. Wife is now taking step daughter to in-laws so she doesnt have to see her.
