Wants to leave again after a month!!!

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So I find myself here again. This time I think it will be shirt lived. I was in piecing because my husband decided to move back home last month. We were starting to reconnect in little baby steps. Small baby steps. One fight and BAM he wants a divorce. I tried telling him we haven't even given it a chance but he says he feels like a bird in a cage. This will be the 4 th time he's done this 3rd time in a year and a half.

Why did he come back? I had gotten used to the idea of him not being here. Now I am back to square one. I've tried reasoning with him. I asked him to be sure this is 100 % what he wants but he lost it.

He said how else do I need to tell you I am no longer attracted to you. What do you say to that? I'm a petite attractive girl. I take care of my body and appearance. Most people say I am pretty hot so his comments don't really bother me. I know it's because we have no emotional connection.

What do I do? Just close this chapter regardless of what an effect it will have on my home life, kids, and the business we own together? I want him to go to a marriage retreat with me but he is ready to kill me every time I speak. I don't blame him. I'm a loser. Who wants to be with someone that doesn't value them?

Just looking for advise.