In her mind, her IC will be done when she doesn't blame me for everything. This tells me she recognizes that she has a responsibility in what has happened.
Well this sounds positive actually.
I think in my W's case, she thinks her IC will be done when she's figured out why she let me make her unhappy for so long. [even though I can pull out last year's love letters that she wrote, or fb posts about going out to dinner with her love...]
BTW, did you say English was not your first language? It's very good -- wondering what your primary is?
