Andy, I'm very sorry to hear about what has happened to you. The DB/DR books really do have a lot of good ideas in them that can help you deal with this situation.
Things may seem hopeless right now but in time things can change. If you work on yourself, make yourself the spouse that someone would be crazy to leave, your wife may reconsider what she's doing. If not, then you will be a much better version of yourself.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS
