Kids are 3 and 11. We got a rocky start because the first child was purely not planned and had to scramble. I moved her in with me after knowing her a short time.
When you say "head spin", what do you mean? I already have 2 books that came recommended but everyone is telling me to read more books. I barely have time to pee these days. Not saying I won't do it but I am trying to learn if there is any hope here or if I need to step back and forget it.