Barry, agreed. It's a big decision for her and would be a major detour from what she's been saying previously about time with our kids. I understand she needs time.
Wonka, I would LOVE it if my W would try to coral me to talk about 50/50 this Friday. Unfortunately, she still won't see me or talk to me directly. My MIL brings the kids to a neutral location so I don't see my W at all.
Here's a new wrinkle, all of the hotels in my W's town are booked up already. The only rooms available have one bed, not big enough for myself and three kids. I'm thinking it makes more sense to just bring them home and my D6 misses a day of school.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS