I guess I am scared for all this process and my ego still gets in the middle of all this, trying to control the outcome of all this, I am meeting with my still W at least legally tomorrow, listen to what she wants to say about this financial matters and go with the mentality of not controlling the outcome...at the end its going to happen whatever God wants.
I would strongly recommend that you NOT meet with ANYONE to discuss legal and financial matters, when:
a) that person is currently your adversary; and
b) that person has retained legal counsel; and
c) you haven't
If you MUST, then do NOT make ANY decisions . . . just LISTEN. Your reply should be "OK, I will have to think about that, and get back with you." or even "I'm not going to agree to anything right now, but I hear that you are saying ____________. I'll have to get back to you on that."
