I guess I am scared for all this process and my ego still gets in the middle of all this, trying to control the outcome of all this, I am meeting with my still W at least legally tomorrow, listen to what she wants to say about this financial matters and go with the mentality of not controlling the outcome...at the end its going to happen whatever God wants.
The more you try to control things the harder & more painful it will be because ultimately you can only control yourself, your W's actions are not your to control - the best thing you can do for yourself is to accept the situation as it is, it isnt an easy thing to do but you'll find comfort in handing things over and just focusing on the things you can change, which is mainly YOURSELF.
Good luck tomorrow.
Divorce Final: Oct 2014
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