Drew, I do get your point and you're right, sticking up for myself as well as setting my boundaries are for sure good things to do, telling her what to do is not cool.

I do think I've set a pretty big boundary in saying that I will not discuss any financial matters with her until we have a 50/50 parenting arrangement agreed to and in place.

She wants money asap and she knows she will not get any until she agrees on 50/50. I want to reach that agreement without lawyers so giving her time is ok with me, for now.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS