I sent my response to her questions on the 19th, she responded on the 20th saying she needed time to think about 50/50. I thanked her for her reply on the 21st and told her I'd be picking the kids up this Friday.
If I have not heard back from her by the 31st she will have loads of time to think about 50/50. If I give her until the end of next week to respond she will have had more than two full weeks to make up her mind which should be more than enough.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS