Been DB and making progress - decided last week to go NC for a while & set some healthy boundaries (big 180 for me!), H said he didn't want this and that he wanted to stay in contact but I've been strong and stuck with it, he's been perusing me & saying he misses me a lot. Since I "let go" of him & our marriage he's been forced to face up to the reality of his decisions and said he is struggling.
GOOD!! Let him put on his BBPs (Big-Boy Pants) and fully feel the consequences of his destructive and immature decisions. You can't rescue him.
