Drew, I think I did ask for what I want. I asked my W to move back to my province with the kids, she said no. I've been asking since last November that we share time with the kids 50/50, right now she says she needs time to think about it so I'm giving her some time. I've also asked that we work on our M to see if it can be salvaged to which she's said N O.

This coming weekend I'm going to keep the kids until Monday. I'm not asking my W if this is ok, I'm going to inform her that is what I'm doing. I have to do this in her home town to make sure my D6 gets to school that day. I'd like to stay for the whole week but I can't afford to stay in a hotel for that long right now.

Other than that, I could ask that the kids be allowed to talk with me longer each night if they want to. Is there something else you think I could be asking for?

If I'm afraid of anything it's that this situation will turn into WW3 and a full blown custody battle. Am I still tip toeing around my W? I am somewhat although I don't think I'm doing it as much as before. With my W saying she's thinking about agreeing to 50/50 I think it makes sense to not rock the boat too much right now. If she responds saying she won't agree to 50/50 I will be on the phone to my L that same day and my W will be served with papers the following day.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS