^Starsky, et al; thanks. I think I'll work on this tonight. I'm still angry/hurt/bitter over allowing her to ruin my vacation (epic conditions as well). But I think I'm at the point to accept a 'no' from her when I state my needs.

A friend of mine today suggested I send her a bill for her half of the vacation. smile


Me: 46
Ex: 38
Married: 10
Together: 12
No Children
Separated (again): 09/06/13
Divorced: 02/27/15