^Starsky, et al; thanks. I think I'll work on this tonight. I'm still angry/hurt/bitter over allowing her to ruin my vacation (epic conditions as well). But I think I'm at the point to accept a 'no' from her when I state my needs.
A friend of mine today suggested I send her a bill for her half of the vacation.
Me: 46 Ex: 38 Married: 10 Together: 12 No Children Separated (again): 09/06/13 Divorced: 02/27/15