Well if it is YOU who has these issues it will be YOU who will have to change in order to get your H to change. Have you tried communicating these feelings to him? And I mean REALLY communicating these things to him. Not nagging him or complaining about it. But from the heart telling him in VERY specific terms what it is that you WANT/EXPECT from him?
If not you have some work to do. Read Michele's books and better yet get her marriage breakthrough tapes it will teach you EXACTLY how to talk to your H and get him to do your bidding.
