This came from Lynne Forrest today (she has a great explanation of the victim triangle).

When we work on ourselves, question & reframe the thoughts we believe, WE change - in the way we see things, in the way we feel, and act, towards others.

And when we do - miracle of miracles! - the other changes too!

Others respond better, in the way they treat us, not from confronting them, but as a result of OUR OWN shift in consciousness

This has been my experience.

Our own growth also makes it easier to recognize the people we no longer want in our lives.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss