Hey 3-Ugh, my post from last night didn't show up. I agree that you have worked so hard on yourself. Your H is showing his cake eating colors again. I don't know how to handle this sitch. I get dropping the rope more, but how do you keep from being someone's plan B?

I agree with M's ? What needs to happen to motivate him to figure things out?

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014