Sorry, Paul. My H is the same . . . he refuses to look at me and only speaks to me if I speak to him directly in front of the kids and he has no choice but to respond. I am not sure if he remembers how to smile at all, at least when I am around.
Oh well. They have their own reasons, I guess. We don't know what is going on in their heads, nor can we change it. Just have to let it go and not affect your mood, I guess. Easier said than done . . . it's definitely a practice!
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14